Is it wrong to limit physical interaction until he starts paying for dates?

It seems he is taking a lot for granted. He's jumping from a short friendship into cuddling and you have not even dated. (Half a basket of fries is not a diner date) His behaviour is aggressive. He may not be the person you feel you are starting to know. In any case his attitude may have sabotaged any chance of romance. Since he is a disappointment, since you do not like his style and are not interested at this time- you should tell him so. There is no reason why you should fall into his eager arms! If he is attracted to you, let him first charm you. He can court you, make himself desirable and mostly make you feel wonderful and y and then he could think of cuddling -